My girlfriend of 1 1/2 years just left me today. I need someone to help me. I was actually in the process of trying to find a ring. I was going to propose on may 24/25 right at midnight :( Please. Any kind of cheering up is welcome
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My girlfriend of 1 1/2 years just left me today. I need someone to help me. I was actually in the process of trying to find a ring. I was going to propose on may 24/25 right at midnight :( Please. Any kind of cheering up is welcome
Aww. So sorry to hear that. I had a fiance. Once. She left me. I know that feel man....
I come on, this is the first thing I see, and I'm just thinking, 'Aw fudge...'
And, I've never been good with these types of things, and I've never been in this situation but...
I'm sorry for you loss? *facepalm* I'm sorry, I suck at these kind of things.
Showdown, remember, Veil and I have your back. If anyone knows that friends can get you through this type of thing, it's us.
I am always open for talking, my friend :)
Better to find out now rather than later. Just wish her the best of luck, reflect from your experiences with her, and you will become a better man for the next woman in your life. Meanwhile, do what makes you happy. Don't jump into another relationship just yet. Stick to your studies and/or hobbies, do things for yourself. It sucks to lose someone who you depended upon for happiness and love, but the healthiest thing to do is to find those two things in yourself. If you need someone to talk to, you can PM me or add me on Skype.
Thanks guys :) and christie, i already added you. Mine is showdownthewriter
Listen to some melodic music and unwind. Reggae works for me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pTviWS258fg
It hurts, but it's better it happened now than when you propose or even after that. *consoling hug*
This video came to mind, enjoy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_q5x4WZcYk
Dude, I feel you man. Here's two words the rock band Kiss has taught me, "Love Stinks"
I can't say I've ever been in the engagement zone, but I've been walked away from by people I thought loved me many, many times.
You might be feeling like no one can ever replace her, or that it's somehow all your fault, but stick it out and it will get better. Struggle is natures way of strengthening; get through this and you'll emerge a much stronger, more experienced human being.
Christiefries knows what's up. That's the advice you need to be following; don't let these negative feelings take over your life, and above all don't rush out for the rebound. This is your opportunity to focus more on yourself, to show yourself you can be a strong and independent person.
These little bumps in the road of life are our growing points, where we will draw experience from in the future.
If you wanna talk, I'm around. Stay strong!