If I wasn't in a meeting I would scream at you both for ludicrously beating yourself up.
Kaga, you're already stressing out enough on this project. Don't give yourself more shit to stress out about. You're not annoying anybody, and you can catch up on whatever else you need to worry about AFTER you get this project off your back.
Tater, you've got nothing to worry about. Stop making up excuses to hate yourself, because if I will molest/beat as much love into you as I need to. Goldi and I are around if you need to vent.