
Originally Posted by
Scribz
Woah, guys. Chill.
TP, if you're feeling bad man, and you don't have that confidence to be yourself yet.
Then, here's the big way to solve it.
Go out and speak to girls, any girls, like...be willing to be the creepy fucking guy.
Just fucking do that, get blown to shit out, time and time again.
Push the limits, not so much it's rape, or man-handling. But push it to the bitter end.
You will gain reference experience and your emotional wiring and frame of mind will adapt.
And by the time you are willing to be yourself, it'll be the time where you've changed into the kind of guy who is open about himself.
People don't realize that unconfident people who "aren't being themselves", are being themselves by putting on fake images, or trying to pretend they're something their not. Because that is an action and perpetuating factor of that very person's self at that time.
Really, I mean. Look up shit, try it out, why not.
I'd recommend going on youtube and checking RSD's freetour, or the blueprint. Really really solid shit from guys who've been doing this stuff for 10+ years.
But good information only goes so far, and if you watch 30 minutes of video without at least 2 hours of approaching a girl after girl after girl and putting it to practise.
Well, you're gonna just psyche yourself out.
People learn from their environment through action more than people learn from a book. Take stock of that, and get comfortable being a complete tool for a while.
And remember, it's just guys and girls. Their opinion on how you should act or live your life, isn't that big of a deal.