What should i do in this Situation?

[CountdownDiva]

Well, there is this boy at my school named Kenny, and he likes me. He is a grade ahead of me (12th) and, personally, he isnt the cutest person. But I really dont care about his looks, but he asked me out over the phone yesterday and i said yes.
We were dating for a day, but then i ended it, just now.

You may be wondering why i did it, if i wasnt attracted to him. Its because he was guilting me in to it! Literally! He told me how people make fun of him and say his ugly and fat, short, etc. (Which he is) and he said that he cuts himself, and was about to kill himself, but when i started talking to him it made him happier.
It made me sad, and when he asked me to be his girlfried i reluctantly said yes, even though we havent really been talking, and i just kinda met him.

So, yeah. Now he is saying how i should give him the week so i can find out more about him and go out with him soon. And i told him that i wasnt ready for a relationship.
He asked me when, and i said im not sure.
All he replied was "I got u." As in, he is mad/sad. And i feel really bad, but im not attracted to him.

Really, i like another boy who is in my grade, and he likes me back too, just doesnt have the courage to ask me out. I am sooo lost.
Help.

[The Australian]

Correct me if I'm wrong, but you went out with a person who is emotionally and (Most likely) mentally unstable when you weren't even flipping attracted to him. Jesus Christ. The only think possible that could make this situation go from 'Bad' to 'Panic Bells, it's red alert' is if you were to start falling all over the other chap that you mentioned last, and flaunted it around in front of the first guy.

[CountdownDiva]

First of all, that wouldnt even happen. One, because i dont "Flaunt" or "Fall" over other guys. And even if i DID he wouldnt see it

[happyhobo2000]

I know this isn't traditional at all, but ask the second guy on a date. Don't ask him to go out with you, as he may feel like he lost his balls. We live in the 21st century, and you just need to tell the guy if he'd like to play tennis with you (Or since your a cheerleader, you probably can do something else?). Make it EXTREMELY clear that you like him. Don't just be flirtatious, make it obvious you are TRYING to be flirtatious. Laugh at everything he says, even if it's dumb. Hug him first. Don't kiss him. Don't be overly sexual. If it was good ask him if he'd like to meet up again. He probably isn't sure that you like him.

Now, the first guy you should have never dated. Or at least you should have demanded a date at first.

[CountdownDiva]

Lol you made me laugh ^.^
Thanks

[MorningWood]

Here's a bridge, get over it.


For serious: That first guy wasn't very stable in the emotional department. Wait for about at least a month and ask the second guy out (because who knows how the nutty might react, certainly if he starts thinking you dropped him for the other guy. It doesn't look so obvious after a month, you know.)

[CountdownDiva]

.-. First part was rude, but okay...

[happyhobo2000]

Lol you made me laugh ^.^
Thanks

I'm sort of confused about how that was really that funny.... I was sort of being serious. Oh well XD

EDIT: I say wait a while as well.

[Ryukuruyu]

I feel like I should make a South Park joke ...

Hmm, let's call Emo Boy here boy No.1, let's call the boy in your grade who likes you and you like him back Boy No.2
Emo Boy\Boy No.1 here is called Fat, Ugly, short, and he cuts himself, obviously mentally unstable as the Australian said so. Now, he guilted you into dating him, but you quickly ended your relationship with him after a day or so, now, if he can guilt you into dating him, he'll do it again and again, you have to say No. If you don't want to date him, then that's fine. He'll have to get over you, he'll find someone else. However, if you do feel sorry for him you can be friends with him. Meaning talking and texting to him as that is what I would do if I were in your situation.

On to Boy who you like who is in 11th Grade with you, Boy No.2
Looking at the post you made and the fact that you said you don't have the courage to ask him out, it's quite obvious that you're afraid of him turning you down and saying no (I swear I feel like Captain Obvious now ...). Well, that's fine, you don't have to have a lot of courage to go up to him and ask him out, you only need like what, 15 seconds of Courage? Yes, 15 seconds of courage is all you need to go up to Boy No.2 and ask him out. What if he says no? Well, by the SLIGHTEST chance that he says no then don't cry, walk away proud, there are other boys out there who would think that you are lovely and would head over heels in a second for you.

Hope I helped.

[Foster]

Keep him as a third-wheel in case you get dumped.
-At best, he's a tad emphatic.
-At worst, he's an emo attention-whore.

Because you're still in school, you won't be rid of him.

As a rebound-person, there could be worse choices.

As for person #2, fucking do it. It's gonna hurt person #1 anyways and he's been through that kinda relationship-shit game before and lost every time.