Online, thats a big problem for me- In real life, due to my panic disorder and getting out fairly rarely, its not that big of a problem at all.
And I have heard digging for a girl is bad mojo, but eh, I guess it will come to me. The lust for love, however, is a powerful bond- A feeling that is hard to shake, as you know.
A 'No' uttered from the deepest conviction is better than a 'Yes' merely uttered to please, or worse, to avoid trouble. -Gandhi
If you truly wish to destroy a man, give him everything he wishes for. -I have no idea!