Relationship Vent

[★LunaLight★]

I can understand the want of someone to love you for the rest of your life, but such a thing cannot necessarily be found imo. To me, it just happened. There are a lot of trials and tribulations with such things, and there will be ruts in the road that will be make it or break it. One thing to consider is to not rush into things. Let them take their course. Eventually, some guy or girl will come into your life that will be the person that you want to see all the time and at times want them away from you. Take your time. Enjoy life for what it is, and sooner or later such a person that you want to spend the rest of your life with will come in. Please do not rush such things and be patient.

I know. But it is because I know that it will happen eventually that I await it so fondly. Sure I have a few moments of doubt, but I pick myself right back up. I have a lot of other stuff on my mind too. College has opened me up to a lot of new ideas. The real issue is going to be deciding which things I will end up doing with my life. I'm multi-talented academically, so it is going to be a tough choice. I've got big plans though

[The Shepherd]

I know (pretty much) how you feel, and I can totally sympathize. I, myself, am a hopeless romantic. I want someone I can nurture and be there for and grow old with, not just some...Hollow, energetic fling. I, too, am 18. --Believe me, nothing you've said that you want is childish. People 5 times our age, sadly, feel similar things. I, too, have had so many friends, who then just...Have more important things to do, who have other commitments, and you just become a fly on the wall for them. Such is life.

I, too, want someone to want me, someone who wants to explore my heart and my soul, every nook and cranny, find out exactly who I am and what I think and feel. That nobody has a magnifying glass at hand, trying to do so, is discouraging. Certainly.

Doesn't help that I don't have much of a base. I have my best friend, I have a good friend (who lives in the states), but beyond that, not really anyone to talk to about my own problems. I don't have any sort of religion or group or anything to seek guidance from or find solace in (not that I desire the former). So yes, it can be stressful.

But I don't let it consume me. Love has a way of...Finding you. Just take your life a day at a time. Try not to worry about it. As silly as it sounds, I pulled out my hair worrying about relationships for a year, and it got me nowhere, and now I'm just (mostly) not worrying anymore. Still have lots of time.

If you need someone to talk to, feel free to message me! Hope you're feeling better soon. It's stressful as all hell, demotivating, I know, but it'll be just fine. I promise.

[★LunaLight★]

Believe me, nothing you've said that you want is childish.

Well I didn't mean the things I want are childish, more the way I act is still mostly childish. I've grown up as far as making good decisions, taking responsibility, and other things of that sort. I just haven't outgrown my social dependence of others. I crave interaction, so I'm not the best at jobs which require me to be alone for long periods of time. During class I ask a lot of questions, and participate whenever possible to keep myself interested. I lack self motivation, and because of that it is hard for others to look at me as someone independent. I haven't outgrown this because I've never had to be in a situation where I had to go without people around me concerned with what I am doing. I am still living with my parents. And I think I would have started in four year college instead of community had I not been scared of going out on my own. I know I'll always have RpG, but the internet has never worked as a substitute for real people. I don't know if I will grow out of it, mainly due to the fact that the reason I'm so friendly is because of my genuine interest in others. Even still, I'm sure someone out there likes a quality like that.

[Genghismike]

Puppy Love.

What you're really looking forward to is someone who goes to work all day, then comes home too tired to do anything but grunt at you and give you a peck on the cheek before laying down on the couch, watching some tv, and ultimately wind up snoring five minutes later.

[★LunaLight★]

Puppy Love.

What you're really looking forward to is someone who goes to work all day, then comes home too tired to do anything but grunt at you and give you a peck on the cheek before laying down on the couch, watching some tv, and ultimately wind up snoring five minutes later.

*giggles* I'm an optimist and idealist Mike. I can't help myself .

[Rilla]

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....This sounds like something to not even worry about.

[Ruby]

Really not hard to see what demographic Spam males fall into, is it?

Esper's so spot on. It's part of the process. I'm as independent minded and confident a woman as I know, and even I've had moments where it's like, 'Am I just not standing out? Is there something about me I can change or make better?' But over time it just makes you insane. Every single shred of evidence I've witnessed says you're an incredibly sweet heart with a tough side and a great personality.

I'm in my mid-20s. Not single, but at this point in life I just try to enjoy each relationship for what it is while it is. Could this be 'the one?' I think so, I hope so. But I adapted a wait and see approach in my early 20s, and it's served me well. You'll figure it out. We all do, one way or another. Just don't compromise anything about you to try to make the pieces fit. When they fit, they fit, and you'll know.

[Cpt Toellner]

How are you today Luna?

[★LunaLight★]

Really not hard to see what demographic Spam males fall into, is it?

Esper's so spot on. It's part of the process. I'm as independent minded and confident a woman as I know, and even I've had moments where it's like, 'Am I just not standing out? Is there something about me I can change or make better?' But over time it just makes you insane. Every single shred of evidence I've witnessed says you're an incredibly sweet heart with a tough side and a great personality.

I'm in my mid-20s. Not single, but at this point in life I just try to enjoy each relationship for what it is while it is. Could this be 'the one?' I think so, I hope so. But I adapted a wait and see approach in my early 20s, and it's served me well. You'll figure it out. We all do, one way or another. Just don't compromise anything about you to try to make the pieces fit. When they fit, they fit, and you'll know.

*giggles*, sounds like you have everything figured out .

How are you today Luna?

Doing pretty well. I thought I lost my wallet this morning, but when I made my bed I realized I slept with it for some reason.

[Turtlicious]

Never mind the age question. Actually, I'm not going to participate in this at all. If I took the time to write a post, I'd be asking why having a boyfriend is so goddamn relevant to what are pretty clearly issues of self-esteem and the need for validation, and that finding a solution to these problems should not entail having an orgasm dispenser on call, but I'm fairly certain you'll nod your head in agreement with me and then go on to do absolutely nothing to change your circumstances. That's how Spam's angsty teens always handle it. Why waste the effort, eh?

Besides, isn't she like... 12?