Relationship Vent

[★LunaLight★]

I didn't really ask a question, but hey, shoot.

Foxes, I have very high self esteem. I like who I am. I just shared really personal stuff right now. You came here to put me down without really saying anything. Is this really how you want me to see you, or do you just really not care?

[Christiefries]

Luna, I'm kind of going through the same thing. No one really cares to get to know me offline and they don't stick around for very long. Everyone is so obsessed with themselves, they only want to talk about themselves, and they only want to hang out with someone if they get something out of it. I'm quite sick of it, and I only have a few close friends who are better than that. As for intimate relationships... I don't really believe in love at this point, but perhaps I'll find someone who can teach me what it is. That sounds quite romantic in itself. I'm not totally obsessed with being in a relationship at the moment, but I am keeping my eye out for a potential partner. Someone who will be able to take care of the both of us financially and also possesses positive traits.

[Foxes]

Foxes, I have very high self esteem. I like who I am. I just shared really personal stuff right now. You came here to put me down without really saying anything. Is this really how you want me to see you, or do you just really not care?

"Do you really not care about what I, LunaLight, Internet user, have to think about you?" Not really, no, but it really shouldn't be anything negative. That wasn't my intent.

I'm not putting you down beyond assuming you're a female PaladinFoster, which itself may have been premature. Don't take offense, you're just far from the first person who has come to Spam venting about her relationship issues. I have relatively low expectations of you people.

All the same, as high as you say your self-esteem is, we all have moments of doubt in ourselves and our self-worth. It happens to me, and from what I can tell, this is one of those moments for you. It's not a bad thing. "Will anyone have sufficient interest in me to put the effort into a serious and happy relationship with me" is not a particularly alien question to any of us, aside from those of us who are sufficiently confident to automatically answer in the affirmative. My point is that there are bigger issues out there for you to be concerned about. This will happen in time. Or it won't. Personally, I don't put a whole lot of stock in relationships as a source of happiness, which is why my, personal, advice is for you to find the comforts against whatever particular vein of thought brought you to share this information with us elsewhere.

Having a boyfriend is nice. It just seems, from this original post, that you're putting too much emphasis on it.




Also, this post I've quoted and the OP are entirely inconsistent with each other. I'm not sure what to make of you.

[Esper]

Foxes, I have very high self esteem. I like who I am. I just shared really personal stuff right now. You came here to put me down without really saying anything. Is this really how you want me to see you, or do you just really not care?

Truly touching. This is the part of growing up that is difficult for people, the slow climb into adulthood. Everyone handles it differently and everyone changes. It is an uncertain time and there is no real way to stop that from happening. Just know this: If you need someone to vent to shoot me a PM and I will not judge you for how you feel or what you think.

[★LunaLight★]

Luna, I'm kind of going through the same thing. No one really cares to get to know me offline and they don't stick around for very long. Everyone is so obsessed with themselves, they only want to talk about themselves, and they only want to hang out with someone if they get something out of it. I'm quite sick of it, and I only have a few close friends who are better than that. As for intimate relationships... I don't really believe in love at this point, but perhaps I'll find someone who can teach me what it is. That sounds quite romantic in itself. I'm not totally obsessed with being in a relationship at the moment, but I am keeping my eye out for a potential partner. Someone who will be able to take care of the both of us financially and also possesses positive traits.

Good luck girl. I'm rooting for you.

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"Do you really not care about what I, LunaLight, Internet user, have to think about you?" Not really, no, but it really shouldn't be anything negative. That wasn't my intent.

I'm not putting you down beyond assuming you're a female PaladinFoster, which itself may have been premature. Don't take offense, you're just far from the first person who has come to Spam venting about her relationship issues. I have relatively low expectations of you people.

All the same, as high as you say your self-esteem is, we all have moments of doubt in ourselves and our self-worth. It happens to me, and from what I can tell, this is one of those moments for you. It's not a bad thing. "Will anyone have sufficient interest in me to put the effort into a serious and happy relationship with me" is not a particularly alien question to any of us, aside from those of us who are sufficiently confident to automatically answer in the affirmative. My point is that there are bigger issues out there for you to be concerned about. This will happen in time. Or it won't. Personally, I don't put a whole lot of stock in relationships as a source of happiness, which is why my, personal, advice is for you to find the comforts against whatever particular vein of thought brought you to share this information with us elsewhere.

Having a boyfriend is nice. It just seems, from this original post, that you're putting too much emphasis on it.




Also, this post I've quoted and the OP are entirely inconsistent with each other. I'm not sure what to make of you.

Foxes, it is a damn vent. You are supposed to get out negative feelings lol. If I talked about everything that made me happy, everyone would be going like lolwut?

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Truly touching. This is the part of growing up that is difficult for people, the slow climb into adulthood. Everyone handles it differently and everyone changes. It is an uncertain time and there is no real way to stop that from happening. Just know this: If you need someone to vent to shoot me a PM and I will not judge you for how you feel or what you think.

*giggles* Thank you.

[Foxes]

Foxes, it is a damn vent. You are supposed to get out negative feelings lol. If I talked about everything that made me happy, everyone would be going like lolwut?

I am not entirely sure how to reply. It's late here, though. Good night.

[★LunaLight★]

I am not entirely sure how to reply. It's late here, though. Good night.

Night night.

[♠Ace♠]

Ok, so basicly I'm being taunted by the image PF showed me that nothing really comes to mind when I think about someone I really love. I've had a bit of a strange idea of what consitutes love, because a lot of my relationships never had a lot of stimulation, and I never really cared for it. Everyone I've ever dated, was just someone who I loved to be around. They were the kind of person I wanted to be with me to share all the little things and big things in life with. In the end, I what I really want in someone is just to be a lifelong partner. I want someone who is always there, for everything. Someone who I can look forward to seeing after a hard day. Someone who can enjoy life alongside me. And it makes me a little sad inside, that I don't have someone like that. Nobody really ever cares to gain that kind of insight on me. I haven't met many people in real life who really hear the entirity of all the things I say, because in the end, I feel like nobody wants to care about me that way. I'm still a child in a lot of ways, and I really don't know if I'm going to grow out of it. I like who I am, but because of my choices, alot of people never end up seeing me as anything more than a passing friend. I was really depressed one month after entering college, because all the people in highschool who I thought cared about me, suddenly have lives of their own to deal with, and I'm not a part of them anymore. I sometimes think, does anyone really care about me enough to try to figure me out...

[★LunaLight★]

[Beatrix]

I can understand the want of someone to love you for the rest of your life, but such a thing cannot necessarily be found imo. To me, it just happened. There are a lot of trials and tribulations with such things, and there will be ruts in the road that will be make it or break it. One thing to consider is to not rush into things. Let them take their course. Eventually, some guy or girl will come into your life that will be the person that you want to see all the time and at times want them away from you. Take your time. Enjoy life for what it is, and sooner or later such a person that you want to spend the rest of your life with will come in. Please do not rush such things and be patient.