Relationship goal

[Taaja Hart]

No, they will still go after the dirty guys before they touch him, and the douch-bags, and the drug abusers.

They all get the girls before the good guys.

No seriously.

It's actually the dirty guys and the douche bags and the drug abusers who go after the girls. Good guys are too busy being good to go after the girls. Always waiting for the girl to come to them. That's been my experience, mostly.

[Cpt Toellner]

It's actually the dirty guys and the douche bags and the drug abusers who go after the girls. Good guys are too busy being good to go after the girls. Always waiting for the girl to come to them. That's been my experience, mostly.

Well you see, when the good guys go after the girls, they loose focus or confidence and either get friendzoned (this is a favorite tactic for most girls) or come off as the creep.

[★LunaLight★]

Well you see, when the good guys go after the girls, they loose focus or confidence and either get friendzoned (this is a favorite tactic for most girls) or come off as the creep.

I always thought this was because most people aren't a good fit, and bad guys really don't have standards.

[Clirkus]

I'MA SHOOT FOR TWO YEARS WITHOUT A GIRLFRIEND. OCTOBER 2013 HERE I COME!!!!!

Luna's not bitter or anything


But TP, I'm beating you. 4 years, nearly 6 months since my last official relationship

My whole life and counting.

I win.

[Cpt Toellner]

When your a lonely guy, you drop your standards too sometimes, take that from experience

[Ruby]

I always thought this was because most people aren't a good fit, and bad guys really don't have standards.

Good guys tend to come onto a girl without self confidence or much aggression displayed at all. If there's a reason most good guys get friendzoned, maybe start there. So kinda what Taaja said, just from a different aspect.

It's funny, too. You'd think the 'Good Guys' would get we don't necessarily want the bad boy or douche guy...it's the afore mentioned confidence, and the male aggression, we're after. They don't have to be jerks.

[Clirkus]

When your a lonely guy, you drop your standards too sometimes, take that from experience

I'm lonely because of my standards.

[Rilla]

But not having a girlfriend is easy...

... all you have to do is say no.

[★LunaLight★]

Good guys tend come onto a girl without self confidence or much aggression displayed at all. If there's a reason most good guys get friendzoned. So kinda what Turt said, just from a different aspect.

It's funny, too. You'd think the 'Good Guys' would get we don't necessarily want the bad boy or douche guy...it's the afore mentioned confidence, and the male aggression, we're after. They don't have to be jerks.

I agree with the whole confidence thing, but I'm not quite understanding the 'male aggression'.

[Ruby]

I agree with the whole confidence thing, but I'm not quite understanding the 'male aggression'.

You can have all the confidence in the world about yourself. You still need to have the instinct to see what you want and go after it. Most girls I know don't daydream about the quiet guy staring at his feet waiting for her to make the first move. But why do bad guys and douches have so much success? They aren't shy, let's say.