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Thread: One of my dreams has just been crushed... Becoming an adoptive mom

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    I don't know why really, but I decided to post this in hopes of feeling better

    Apparently depression bars you from adopting from most places. I get it, I guess, it just hits me right in the heart. We'll see, maybe I'll be able to stop my medication and go from there.
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    Is feeling lucky Foster's Avatar
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    That's... actually pretty depressing to hear...
    "Just drive down that road, until you get blown up [by shells]"
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    "After several men of the company had been blown up by shells, I noticed that a spirit of uneasiness became dominant."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Foster View Post
    That's... actually pretty depressing to hear...
    Yeah, probably the worst news I've gotten in a long time.
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    Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that... I pray that you can one day adopt, there are way too many kids out there that need somebody like you that wants them, and to show them love!
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    Is feeling lucky Foster's Avatar
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    Is it just me, or does this seem to be a vicious cycle?

    Not sure if you'd want to be a teacher... because there will be a few sad cases... and a few success-stories... They're always hard to tell apart at first... The rationalist POV is one can never fail by trying to achieve what you once thought impossable, and manage to learn something.

    Can there be a medical-waiver for that issue? Or are there some quacks claiming that you might collapse under the stress of raising a child?

    "Young man, why would I feel like a failure? And why would I ever give up? I now know definitively over 9,000 ways that an electric light bulb will not work. Success is almost in my grasp." And shortly after that, and over 10,000 attempts, Edison invented the light bulb. ~Edison (read comments)
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    "Just drive down that road, until you get blown up [by shells]"
    - General George Patton

    "After several men of the company had been blown up by shells, I noticed that a spirit of uneasiness became dominant."

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    That's...horrible...I am sorry.
    "Who we are I'll never know
    But when we spoke I knew you well
    You knew me well
    You loved me through and through
    I never thought I would watch you leave us
    From a room as a kid I held so close
    I was a son made up on sand
    You were the wind that let me go
    I'll say goodbye
    So this is goodbye
    But I'm afraid to speak
    So with words I'll tell the story
    You meant so much to me
    And like the night upon nights to come
    I will dream of you
    And know that I will see you seen
    Give me the strength to carry on!
    Tide!
    You are the ocean tide!
    The swells swept you away
    I was a son made of sand
    You were the wind that let me go
    When the ocean tide has risen to high
    And the waters have come to carry you away
    Remember I will always be there to sing you to sleep....."

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    Having a child in ones life is wonderful. Don't give up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Foster View Post
    Is it just me, or does this seem to be a vicious cycle?

    Not sure if you'd want to be a teacher... because there will be a few sad cases... and a few success-stories... They're always hard to tell apart at first... The rationalist POV is one can never fail by trying to achieve what you once thought impossable, and manage to learn something.

    Can there be a medical-waiver for that issue? Or are there some quacks claiming that you might collapse under the stress of raising a child?

    "Young man, why would I feel like a failure? And why would I ever give up? I now know definitively over 9,000 ways that an electric light bulb will not work. Success is almost in my grasp." And shortly after that, and over 10,000 attempts, Edison invented the light bulb. ~Edison (read comments)
    Being a teacher would be wonderful, I feel. It's something I have thought of.

    In terms of the waiver, I'm not sure yet. I plan to get I'm touch with a few agencies and see if they allow some sort of documentation that states I'm not high risk or disturbed.

    It really is a cycle, and it makes me angry to see people who aren't good parents who have children, but I can't because of something so small.

    That's for the quote, certainly helps me keep my head up.
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    Thanks everyone for the encouragement, it's nice to have a little support.
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    I'm so sorry to hear about this. I hope you are successful in adopting a child at some point. Good on you for wanting to do that, because there are so many children out there who need homes.



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