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    āˈtipikəl Taaja Hart's Avatar
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    A Wild Ex Appears

    My ex just sent a friend request on facebook. x__x We haven't spoken in months, and for any of you who know anything about my relationship with him, you know it wasn't a pretty thing.

    Do I respond to this? Just ignore it? Halp. o__o

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    Me, I'd accept it, and go on like nothing is out of the ordinary. Several of my exes are on my facebook, some I get along with, and some I can't stand(Especially one that went Christian on me and tries to push it on me whenever we speak).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rilla View Post
    Me, I'd accept it, and go on like nothing is out of the ordinary. Several of my exes are on my facebook, some I get along with, and some I can't stand(Especially one that went Christian on me and tries to push it on me whenever we speak).
    I dunno if it would be a good idea to pretend that nothing is out of the ordinary. He's a bit of a slimy character.

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    Don't reject or accept it. I typically just let it sit there if I don't want to friend people. That way there's no way they can send me another one.




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    Quote Originally Posted by SebasChan View Post
    Don't reject or accept it. I typically just let it sit there if I don't want to friend people. That way there's no way they can send me another one.
    That's what I did.

    And then I realized you can set it so that people can't search you out.

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    You should go on the offensive, stalk his facebookz and post creeper things until he is forced to uncontact you and leave you alone forever.


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    Quote Originally Posted by mbl View Post
    You should go on the offensive, stalk his facebookz and post creeper things until he is forced to uncontact you and leave you alone forever.
    Tempting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mbl View Post
    You should go on the offensive, stalk his facebookz and post creeper things until he is forced to uncontact you and leave you alone forever.
    Quote Originally Posted by Taaja Hart View Post
    Tempting.
    No, bad, awful idea. If he wants to try to get back together with you, which is a possibility regardless of how bad the breakup was, that will only encourage him.

    If you want nothing to do with the fuck just deny his request. Don't be a pussy about it and keep it sitting there untouched forever like some suggest, either accept it and deal with the guy or deny it outright.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Taaja Hart View Post
    My ex just sent a friend request on facebook. x__x We haven't spoken in months, and for any of you who know anything about my relationship with him, you know it wasn't a pretty thing.

    Do I respond to this? Just ignore it? Halp. o__o
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    Do what Jorick said. Just deny it. Then again i don't know anything about you or your relationship with this guy, lol. Still, you said he was a slimey character, so i don't see why you would have second thoughts about adding him.

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