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[Blaider]

Lynxx it is now apparent to me that you've had a very sheltered life you wouldn't know half the stuff that happens out here in the "real" world so before you start deconstructing others problems as a negative rather then a cry for help how would you like to place yourself out here and put one of your secrets up and let us pull you apart like you have for vamp. personally i think she's had a lot of guts to do it and any one that can ask for help deserves it but those that are to afraid to ask need it more.

[Silent Shadow]

I only cut myself when I did something wrong and I'd hear my mom's lovely (barfs) vioce in my head tell me how bad i was. I felt i needed to punish myself. however you never grew up like me or Blue or anyone that had cut themselves so you wouldn't know exactly what it's like to go through stuff like that. Also I don't like talking about it cause it gets me depressed and I was kicked out by my mom I lived on the street and still went to school. (believe it or not it's not that hard to do). And after i was kicked I stopped cutting myself. Cause I didn't have my mothers influence over me anymore. Also the only reason I even brought it up is one Blue i consider a friend and two i feel if people that need the help hear how bad i had it will wise up and stop cutting themselves or feeling bad for themselves and it has worked most the time. (I dont' mean to sound rude if i am, and I'm not saying it worked for blue, but it has helped others). Also for some odd reason when someone does reveal their past it seems to comfort some people cause then they say I'm not the only one.

[LordLynxx]

Yeah, there is no point arguing further. When they start saying i had a sheltered life because i can solve my own problems its already too late. Any further comments usually contains unnecessary statements about my brain status. I'd add this though, I wouldn't talk about people who thinks their life is worthles if i weren't experienced hard life. If you think i'm just being a negative person and i have no reason to say my opinion about this i'll just stop going further on this topic.

[alexjustdoit]

I used to do stuff like that. I'm not sure how I got out of it though. Sorry.

[Forgotten Wolf]

Lynxx I don't think your trying to be a negative person but you keep thinking about how you would handle such an environment. Everyone is different, born and raised. Just because you can solve your own problems doesn't mean someone else can necessarily do the same.

[Blaider]

Lynxx I said you had a sheltered life only because you were the one that said you would bash emo's and you can not understand the emotional hardship placed on one of these so called "emo's" and you were attacking Vamp no matter how inadvertantly or directly you were trying to make it, the fact still stands you were attacking her. She asked for help not for criticism so i would suggest you leave this thread unless you are planning on actually helping instead of just attacking. I'm sorry if that was harsh i didn't mean it too be.
I don't find you negative just inexperienced.

[LordLynxx]

I agree with you Wolf. I talk from my point of view because i don't know other's, but other's doing the same, aren't they? When will they write that, "What if i think positively about my life and try my best to make it better since nothing is impossible?"? It's about the logic, why don't they make questions like "Why i am unable to help myself, Can't i do something better than cutting myself?". I believe they know the answer they could make it a lot better but it's a lot comfortable if they ask for help. Okay, asking for help is alright but there is a limit. Like cutting ourselves to "force"(couldn't find better word, really) others helping us instead to ask specialized person who knows how to help. The concept of sitting in a dark corner and crying is that they want someone to bright that corner for them and cheer them up. Is there other logic behind it?

[Blaider]

Some of that was actually true however it was still partially aimed as an attack. They maybe trapped in that corner (Don't you dare say that don't happen) and it takes some one special to light the corner up. As for specialized people I thought i covered that before. THEY DO NOT WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. The person most often feels pressured in those situations therefore do not answer the questions truthfully or talk truthfully. therefore doing more damage then was already done.

[LordLynxx]

I'd like to ask you to stop your "attack" theory about me, I'm trying to be as rational as my vocabulary lets me. What I'm saying is only my opinion, you can agree with it or put your opinion against it. I already apologized to Vampy, the other stuff after it is aimed at emos in general. What i try to point out is that humans have the ability to exceed their limits, everybody is able to help themselves even if they don't know it. In reality humans are strong in the core, of course there is a difference in that how much strength they're aware of. I believe psychiatrists telling the same, they make weak willed characters believe in their own strengths. In my opinion emos are seeking comfort in a wrong way, what they get most of the time is not considered as help.

[Blaider]

and of cause every body can afford to go see a psychiatrist now can't they.