thanks for the encouraging words! heres what happened: well i needed a reason for him to come by and so i said i needed more napkins and he brought them over. then he was like oh but you still have some and i was like oh. oops silly me. ^^ then he laughed and was like well you might need them cuz that hot sauce will make you cry its so damn hot. pointing to said sauce that came with my meal, *im thinking its not the only hot thing over here* then he kind of lingered so i asked his name and he's like my name is Minh (which im assuming is spelled like that cuz i have a friend named Minh. its pronounced (min). anyway then im like oh cool im Esha, are you a server or host here and turns out we are both servers (me at a barbecue place on the other side of town) and then he had to go back to work but told me when he gets off in case i wanted to talk more and im like well i cant. then i said what pyro said 'oh your so nice can i have your number then? we could maybe hang out and talk another time?' then guess what he said! HE SAID YES! now im crying...not sure if its the hot sauce or that i feel so proud of myself XD seriously he seems really nice. the fact he's tall, and has a nice face is a plus. ....why did i not just text my bff, i dunno she would just be like: woahhhh your gonna get a f*ck buddy! nice one. i dont need that XD