[quote=Alex]
I tend to play like The Late Lord WalderHave oodles of children, marry them off for political clout, murder my in-laws when it suits me. Normally I don't do it at feasts though. Too many witnesses.
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That's the way to do it. I do the same in Total War, only I'm more indiscriminate with who I get rid of. If I don't like you, you'll find yourself riding into battle alone against a huge enemy force.