I agree, many times we must take action to fix the problems we cause, but we are never at fault for people becoming rude or aggressive simply for politely declining to RP or having to cancel a roleplay (unless we are rude in doing so).

Most people, sadly, will not take action when confronted as a problem, but instead place blame.

I have literally been told by a roleplayer to 'kill myself' (the real words used were cruder) because I kicked them from an RP for breaking rules. I'm pretty sure that people like that cannot be reasoned with very easily... They feel entitled and feel they 'have to be right'.

However, everyone can just get a string of bad RPs. Sometimes it's due to someone thinking they are advanced when they aren't, to people simply ditching out without notice due to life becoming too busy or losing interest. It can happen all at once. It's not your fault. Circumstances just suck sometimes.