I'm going to post something relevant to the OP even though this thread derailed long, long ago. I'm similar to someone earlier in this thread in that I end up being most attracted to the attributes of the person I have ze ubercrush on at the time. I like a dancer; that sort of body becomes my ideal. I like a tattoo+piercings, punk-type girl with short hair, I fall in love with those attributes. It's pretty impossible for me to separate the whole emotional side from the physical side, which isn't to say I "only care about personality", more just that my physical attraction is strongly governed by my emotional one. If I were to hypothetically watch porn, or fantasise, I'd end up watching/fantasising someone who's similar to the person I'm emotionally attracted to. Despite that, there are a couple of things I find universally attractive, but they're not physical in a visual sense. I love it when a girl has their own distinct smell - of course it has to be pleasant, but also distinctively theirs. I also have a huge thing for the way a girl moves - it doesn't have to be a certain way, necessarily, but I like either grace or adorable clumsiness (opposites, I know, but hey-ho the human mind ain't logical.) One of the few physical things I find objectively attractive is size - I like to be able to envelop and surround someone when I hold them close, to physically make them feel surrounded and protected and safe. I also find a tendency to blush ridiculously attractive in both a physical and emotional sense. Lastly, voice - I dunno if this is "physical" as such, but I absolutely cannot be physically attracted to a girl whose voice I dislike.