I don't mind the third thread Elly. I'm still so sorry about the abuse your dad gave you but I'm honestly not surprised or shocked, he sounded like the type. I'm sorry that you have such a shit father but I am happy that you do these threads because they seem to help you out in a sense and I am also glad that even though all of the shit you taken your whole life, it helped shape you be who you are, and that is a really great woman Elly. It's good to hear your father is better now than he was when you were younger and it's great to see you're still here man and you learned so much in your life that you've became a great person. 

Even if you're dad is shit, I'm happy your brother and mom are so accepting of who you are. 

You already know where and how to find me if you'd ever need or want to talk. I'll listen man.