Quote: ...not the prettiest girl in the world but with no other females on the team would have to make due. She could be used as meat one was or another. 

Hmm "female meat" that couldn't possibly be sexual innuendo there, now could it? "One way or another" Did the thought ever cross your mind that Jim might not want his player approached for "use as a... woman" or have to fight off murderous intent that he isn't allowed to defeat because his opponent is a PC (and have us thrown into the same adventure by the GM so that it can happen again)? It is the cat tossed into the dog pound scenario.This isn't funny, this is a threat. A hollow one, but a threat nevertheless. It is a bullying technique. I can't just laugh about this. I'm sorry, but I'm not playing a "comedy" like this.

I wish you well, but consider this a drop unless there is a compromise that can be reached.