I came out of the closet for a while, but then I went back in when I decided that I see my bi-curiousity as inconsequential as the fact that I'm a Fallout fan.

As far as anyone else knows, you two are just friends. Try to keep your romantic relations as private as you can right now. If you're still interested in pursuing a relationship with him or another guy, try and move to a more gay-friendly place if you can.

That's all I can really suggest, I'm afraid.