Quote - "Most things I have already planned I would like to execute when they have a more established relationship. . ."

Don't plan too far ahead especially without telling me at least a little bit. I have found that plotting out things without your partner knowing can end with some rather harrowing debates. At the very least I need little hints as to what to tell Lai to let him know some paths he may wanna try :P 

Quote - ". . .so we can focus more on the outward world around them and all the morals of the war and everything."

Does this mean you wanna have our characters talk to other characters right now instead of each other or. . . .This line confuses me. 

Quote - "Do you wanna take a moment to discuss what small events we should have just to make sure it isn't just stagnant back and forth?"

I would like to hear some ideas you have for the two of them not trying to kill one another, yes. I thought the kids might be an aiding factor as they both really care for the kids. . .And we have an attack planned, but I'm not sure if you want it during this visit or the next one. Also I thought it would be cute if Lai got hurt and tried to tend to himself rather than leave and let an angel doc deal with it, and since he can't pray he can't get divine help in healing either :P