Continued, because my cell phone hates me and keeps jumping up paragraphs on its own instead of letting me finish what I was writing:

It kind of like any other holiday in the sense that it is what you make it. Nobody should feel pressured to have to worry about spending enough money to make somebody happy. If you genuinely enjoy that kind of stuff, then by all means, but it should never become something that's an obligation thst is legitimately stressful and uneconomical.