Yeah, like Hillan said, your counter argument is essentially victim blaming. Rewording, your last post could read 'woman are only offended by sexual objectification because they are insecure in who they are." But there's further flaws than that because I'm sure there are women out there every bit as confident as you who aren't offended by sexual objectification. The thing is, they're a minority and in a democratic society the majority rules. When a man is sexual objectified it promotes a healthy well maintained body, why should any guy get offended by that? It's achieveable for anyone willing to put the work into it. But when a woman is objectified, she's layered with makeup, has breast implants, photoshopped to have unattainable curves. It's hardly a fair standard, it's a completely unachievable image that society tells women men want. Sure, society also says women want a guy with six pack abs but look at the popularity of shows such as 'The Big Bang' theory and other media which presents the 'nerd that gets the girl'. Even if a show presents a female nerd she'll likely undergo a makeover before getting the guy she wants. A woman is rarely ever accepted for who she is and that's why sexual objectification is a problem.