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I woke up at 10:00 AM and my Dad was already falling over drunk. He hasn't gone more than thirty seconds without trying to talk to either me or my sister, always in a drunken slur and usually about the same topic he's been talking about for the past two hours.

We should line up all of the world's most irritating people and see how many we can get rid of with a single bullet.
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Give him more booze until he passes out.
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That would only be a temporary solution. If I were to go down that road, I'd give him more booze until his liver failed.
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AA? Jesus? Idk, I'm out of ideas.
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If alcohol abuse isn't exactly rare for him, have you tried getting him to go and get some help? Considering the strength of your response, I'm gonna assume your relationship with him isn't the best, but still - maybe he could turn things around with the proper support/services. I know fuck all about your personal circumstances though, so take that with a grain of salt or w/e.
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It's barely relevant but I just want people to know that I can't drink alcohol or I'll die. It's the only thing that can stop me - my only weakness. Just letting you guys know so you can each all have a bottle of alcohol labelled "In Case of Larfleeze, break glass."
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If alcohol abuse isn't exactly rare for him, have you tried getting him to go and get some help? Considering the strength of your response, I'm gonna assume your relationship with him isn't the best, but still - maybe he could turn things around with the proper support/services. I know fuck all about your personal circumstances though, so take that with a grain of salt or w/e.


He doesn't want to.
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AA? Jesus? Idk, I'm out of ideas.


One Christmas he got reeeally drunk and decided he was going to be a born again Christian, and never drink again. That lasted until the next day or so. I think that came out of listening to too much Christmas music. Every day in December he has it playing 24 hours a day at an excessive volume.
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I don't think there is much you can do if he doesn't want to change. Be helpful if he does, other than that just take care of yourself. Or start playing Silent Night constantly.
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They're skulls would be so thick that they'd be bulletproof.
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I was going to throw some shade at parental complaining and being a teenager...

But an alcoholic family member is actually a p. big deal. I know how that goes. You have my sympathy this time Nex.

But just this once.
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I was going to throw some shade at parental complaining and being a teenager...

But an alcoholic family member is actually a p. big deal. I know how that goes. You have my sympathy this time Nex.

But just this once.


I could not care any less about your sympathy or lack thereof. You are one of the many people that have an irreconcilably negative opinion of me, and I regret having made this thread for the reason that it gave someone like you information about my life and what I put up with every day that I get myself out of bed in the morning.

Fuck you and fuck your condescending "sympathy".


Gee, thanks.
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Challenge your father to a duel over his estate.

Then proceed to get turnt
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@The Nexerus

Woah there kiddo

No need to get your heckles raised, it's not like i have my opinion (negative or otherwise) of you through no fault of your own.

And i guess you should regret it, because you opened yourself up to it.

Nontheless that kind of situation must be shitty if it drove you to come to a place where you're so contemptuous of the people who reply. So, sympathy still there. I know what it's like to deal with that.

I know, i know: "i dont care." I getcha.
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This obvious solution is to just give up and become a Jain monk.
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<Snipped quote by Doivid>

I could not care any less about your sympathy or lack thereof. You are one of the many people that have an irreconcilably negative opinion of me, and I regret having made this thread for the reason that it gave someone like you information about my life and what I put up with every day that I get myself out of bed in the morning.

Fuck you and fuck your condescending "sympathy".


Gee, thanks.


I propose a "You need a hug" rating for stuff like this.
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<Snipped quote by Doivid>

I could not care any less about your sympathy or lack thereof. You are one of the many people that have an irreconcilably negative opinion of me, and I regret having made this thread for the reason that it gave someone like you information about my life and what I put up with every day that I get myself out of bed in the morning.

Fuck you and fuck your condescending "sympathy".


Gee, thanks.


Nex, tonnes of people vent to Spam. I've done it on multiple occasions. It helps deal with shitty situations. So we all know stuff about eachother that maybe very few other people know. No need to regret it, particularly when the responses are positive. And no need to take your anger at yourself for a perceived moment of weakness out on the people trying to help.
Y'know, you don't have to remain all aloof and shit. If people are being decent to you then they don't have an "irreconcilably negative" opinion of you. The proof is in their actions and their words. Take offence where it's intended, not when people are trying to be supportive. Okay, yeah, maybe it was simultaneously flippant, but it was an attempt to be kind.
When you're in a fucking awful situation, pushing people away like that is just gonna make you feel even more like you're fighting the battle all alone. You don't want that, that's why you posted here in the first place - it's the reason everyone who has ever vented here has done it.

I'm sure you'll just dismiss this as "condescending", and that's up to you. It's just my thoughts. Feel free to post here about this shit any time. People'll listen, even if they're sarcastic little shits about it, and in the end that actually means quite a lot.

And that's the end of this PSA.
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He got drunk again last night and came home at 4:00 AM. I woke up this morning to find a large, messy pile of cash and an angry note on the dining room table. It's going to be a fun day.
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It's barely relevant but I just want people to know that I can't drink alcohol or I'll die. It's the only thing that can stop me - my only weakness. Just letting you guys know so you can each all have a bottle of alcohol labelled "In Case of Larfleeze, break glass."


THE DEVILS NECTAR CALLS YOU, LARFLEEZE. YOUR TIME WILL COME AND I WILL BE THE ONE RESPONSIBLE WITH A BOTTLE OF FROSTY JACKS IN HAND
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<Snipped quote by Larfleeze>

THE DEVILS NECTAR CALLS YOU, LARFLEEZE. YOUR TIME WILL COME AND I WILL BE THE ONE RESPONSIBLE WITH A BOTTLE OF FROSTY JACKS IN HAND


GIVE ME YOUR LIVER. I REQUIRE IT TO BE FREE FROM WEAKNESS
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