Yay for hometime! I have mixed feelings on the subject. I feel men have a right not to want involvement in a childs life, just as women have a right to abort. I think it sucks that men can be forced to pay for what they didnt want, but you'd think they'd be smart enough to take precautions, otherwise. Seeing all my sister went through and is still going through, her baby daddy can eat dirt for all i care.