"See thats what I don't get. Parents making all these plans for their kids, without even thinking what they would want. I hate to fight tooth and nail for six months to get here, because my mother didn't want it. But I did" kalinda said. Kalinda never knew anymore when she was stepping over a boundary. She had gotten good at reading peoples emotions by their body language, so that when her blocks were up, she always knew. Yet that never seemed to stop her just continuing to push boundaries. 

"Sometimes I think our parents want to live through us, and forget we havd lives to live, mistakes to make. Just like they did. I don't know, maybe they're afraid if we turn out different from what they want, they will lose us"