No, not identical. We actually look quite different.

This is the best place for watching Yaoi, and getting a list of good Yaoi Manga - http://aarinfantasy.com/forum/forum.php

Actually Yaoi is not a style, it's a genre, and as long as it's in the genre, the style can be whatever way it wants. Gay comics, as in comics made by gays for gays, is called Bara, an tend to be more sex oriented and far less story driven.

I hope you're having fun overseas!!!!!