[quote=@Skallagrim]
Why do I have to change? Why don't people get out of their comfort zones and develop their characters or their skills? 
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To be entirely fair, you being averse to changing is you being averse to leaving your comfort zone. Though I'm not the kind of person who avoids you in fights, so this isn't really my discussion. Post will be up in half an hour by the way.