[quote=@AuntFlavia] I guess I can see that, with apologies to [@Dynamo Frokane] for being snarky about it. I really wouldn't know since I'm not in the dating\dating site scene, being aro ace myself. Do they have sites for specifically finding friends? If so then yeah, people should totally go there. I will say though that my second point still stands: it might just be an attempt at a [s]polite [/s] [b]dishonest[/b] rejection. [/quote] Fixed. And even if they wanted to make up a white lie, they could find a better one. Ive been fortunate that most women who have rejected me have had the balls to just say "I dont see you in that way" or "You're not my type" Instead of making up some crap about friends. Although I have heard of women joining dating sites just to get free dinner/travel. One dutch girl even admitted that tinder was basically app for 'free tour guides with spending money' now that's depressing.