[quote=@Caits] She is on disability, but do you know how much a home nurse would cost? Something like 400 dollars a day. Yeah. Don't have that kind of money and she'd just say "why do I need a home nurse when I have you?" And she doesn't need a home nurse. She just needs help with the house work and that but my dads lazy, he just comes home and parks himself on the lounge and I'm left to do everything else. I've said so many times I can't do everything anymore, but it just seems to go in one ear and out the other [/quote] My mom and dad are the same and hell my husband is so damn lazy he hasn't changed any diapers on any of our three kids trying to get him to takeou t the trash is like pulling teeth. Yet he groans when the house is messy and I am busy with two toddlers and a baby. My mom has insurance that pays for a home health aide that comes in just to clean