[@Ambra]dont get me wrong I agree that she was very hard to approach and slightly unrealistic .  I'm just saying from my perspective it could've been seen as an attack on her and her  character but she  clearly before this did not like constructive constructive criticism  i'm over it now I was just trying to bring up that would've been a little hard on her  but whatever he's gone I realize that it's probably mostly her for not wanting to deal with  The issue