Ben sat there uncomfortably for a bit while she looked over her deck and Ben finally snapped back to reality when the girl spoke back up. He scratched his head a bit more and thought for a moment before he came up with an answer. [color=fff200]"I'd listen to them to be honest. But not in the way you're probably thinking of. If it's good advice and it is a route I'd enjoy going down I'd go for it and take it. But if it doesn't interest me and I didn't want to go with the flow, so to speak, I'd find my own way. That's the thing about life people can try and make you do things and sometimes you may have to do things you don't want to do but you ALWAYS have that choice. You have that choice to ignore who's walking you through life, or you can run down your own route. It's hard making your own way through this great journey we call life but my little brother Andre once said, 'If you don't like listening to someone then shut them up and show them you're better'. Heh I know that's a bit crude but I know but it's got a grain of truth. If you want something and you see a different way towards it you can do your best to chase that goal down even if someone is shouting at you. Oh man that's just a bunch of nonsense I spewed out but I hope that answered your question. I guess I could try again and make the answer a bit more clear but I'm not really some big philosopher guy I just try to help people when I can."[/color] Ben said awkwardly as he tried to explain with a slow but confident tone his wonky answer. It really wasn't so much an answer as it was just a bunch of stuff that came from his head. He always just went with the first thing that came to mind but maybe this wasn't the best case to do that this time.