[quote]I totally second Nutts with regards to relationship.[/quote] 
I lol'ed.

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High school and post high school is very different. Teenagers tend to be full of raging hormones. Plus I do disagree with the "official until sex" aspect mostly cause if your main goal is to simply get a fuck buddy, yes I am dropping that term, then you've missed the whole point of what a relationship is.

A relationship that will last is one that is of close friends that want to stay together for the longest of times. All the relationships that I have seen that have lasted are the ones that follow this rule since they are thinking about each other, their feelings, and their hardships; not the next time they'll have an orgasmic time.

If someone tells you that you are not sexy enough, then there is a higher chance that they don't care about who you are as a person and only want your dick/vagina.
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I agree with you, yet this confuses me from your original complaint. 
The best boyfriend and girlfriend (or same sex) couples are best friends first, and they evolve naturally into that. So why be annoyed if someone only sees you as a friend? I mean, I realize you're interested in them, but are you helping them because you're interested, or because you're friends? 
Like, I've only ever been with one girl, and it came about naturally and before we even realized what was happening. That lasted close to two years and was great. Since then, I've had trouble with telling other girls I am not interested, instead of the other way around. And not because I'm some hunk or something, but because I help them out with stuff and expect nothing back because I'm pursuing other interests. To be honest I'm against the whole premise of 'looking for someone'. If the best relationships are formed naturally, then who I am supposed to be with will show up because I am who I am, and she is who she is. 
Although I can definitely understand being there for someone and then they start dating someone out of the blue, someone who could be really shitty and you feel bad for them.