My god am I sick of my roleplays taking so long. My other roleplayers are often stuck with real life stuff so it can't be helped but then the more active people drop out and it dies in a few weeks. I myself am not the best gm in the world, nowhere close but what else can I do when there is no one who makes the sort of roleplays I want to join, which also doesn't help. 

The roleplays end up just stagnating for a couple weeks and then die unceremoniously. And I hate it especially when people show up for the interest check, don't say a word even if you @t them for confirmation, leaving you with two people out of five to set up a god damn roleplay meant for four people or more. It's really freaking frustrating.