[@Akayaofthemoon] I'm so sorry.  I know I keep saying that but I don't know what else to say.  Like I said to Loon when he was having problems, I love you and you're welcome to tell me if there's anything I can do.  Maybe I could ask my mom what she did when things didn't work out with my dad?  He was a massive jerk for a while, enough so that I cut him out of my life for several years.