[@PyroDash888]

Let me put it this way: You sound a lot like me. If I had to pretend you are like me, I think what you just need is a good Co-Gm at your back, or even better, be a Co-GM yourself. Find someone who's willing to take point on things, but also listen to your suggestions. Someone who everyone finds likeable and agreeable, while you feed them your ideas and plans. In a similar vein, you can argue with a player who disagrees with your idea or the GM's idea and know that you have someone on your side, while at the same time someone who can serve as a mediator between you and the player in question.

Don't GM by yourself. Find someone who'll be willing to help you and shares you dreams. Be careful that they aren't like me and actually plan to turn you into a figure head while you puppet them and all the other players for your nefarious schemes. However I do advocate you doing that yourself.