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This is why when a fight arises, I always have a nice discussion about what should happen with the other person. usually in Pms or over skype. I haven't ever needed to take it to a GM.


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Yep, I've had the same experience in about 8-9 years of RP'ing. Collaboration is key to a RP, so I find it best to engage whomever you are dealing with directly so that you can air out your issues (if there are any) and see where each person is at. I must be lucky, because when it comes to it, I've yet to encounter another RP'er who has issues with their character losing. In fact, in most cases everyone is really eager to have their guy/gal lose, because it's pretty solid way of character building.

The only "fights" I've ever gotten into has ironically been with my D20 group, which is mostly composed of RL friends. Sometimes, you can't handle your mate wining, I guess :lol