Good day, katherinwinter, should you still be sad, don't be. there are many reasons to be happy and joyful, no matter the situation. Even in times of great fear and sorrow, I look up and say in my head: "this ain't all bad, it could always be worst. And I still have other people and events to look forward to". So if this doesn't motovate ya', then I've got to be sad too.