@FoxymewI can enjoy romance, but I'm like you in the sense that I feel it needs to have something alongside it or else it doesn't work too well. I do have some couples in my project which I consider 'predetermined' or 'official', but it's mostly because I know my characters on such a detailed level that I understand how compatible they are and know they'd end up a thing regardless of the trials that might come up.
On the other hand, I definitely relate to the whole 'a lot can happen from point A to point B' thing -- in my main project (it's called 'Guardian Ascension', or just 'GA' for simplicity), I've basically got the final few arcs of the story set in stone because certain aspects of my plot are set up in a way that things will go down this direction no matter what happens up until that point, but the whole middle area of the series is something I plan to pretty much let write itself based on how I feel the characters would act and how all the different schemes and concepts play out.
GA's incredibly difficult to categorize under a genre, and it's more 'literary fiction' as opposed to 'genre fiction', but I believe 'contemporary fantasy' would be the most simplistic way to explain the setting itself. Generally speaking, my concepts and ideas tend to be very complex and not very mainstream.
The current role-play I mentioned I'm running is set in a slightly alternate history 2012, but also has contemporary fantasy elements. I'd say if you're interested in the whole 'out of your league physically' idea, take a look at my role-play some point. It's pretty easy to find, since the big title in my signature is a clickable link to it. Just be aware that it's also got a murder/mystery element to it.
Since I've enjoyed this conversation too, I'll toss you a shameless plug to my
hang-out thread. That's usually one of the easiest ways to say hi to me on this site if you don't PM (given the way the PM system works on this site, I prefer people only use it for something they'd like to keep private). For now, good night.