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He's not particularly enamoured with male gender roles and presentation that might be expected of him (which I thought might be fair, given the association with cats, Catwoman, and femininity), doesn't feel 'like a dude', doesn't care what pronouns get used for him, and probably cross-dresses on occasion, but mostly the first three contribute to his gender identity.

'Genderqueer' might be a more fair description, but there's so many different terms that mean almost the same thing these days; they're almost interchangeable.