[quote=@Grim] [@Ms Patoots] Which slur? Because queer actually means strange or odd. And now that I think about it, fag is British slang for a cigarette. [/quote] yeah and the swastika is a symbol used by many others beyond the nazis but i'd still think twice tattooing it on my [i]fucking[/i] forehead [quote=@Ms Patoots] Not naming any names, but I sometimes encounter people incorporating homophobic slurs into roleplay, either as something a character says, or simply in narration. And it immediately puts me off the roleplay. Even if they correct the usage once I point it out, I'm always left with that niggling doubt in the back of my mind. "Am I roleplaying with a homophobe." I don't like the idea of that, but i also hate the idea of dropping a roleplay due to personal differences. I don't know. I'm a confused mess about this and needed to vent, and maybe get some advice. [/quote] surtr already summed it up so i'll just follow it up by saying you sound stupid that is entirely my own subjective analysis of what you just said but you just sound stupid, sorry