[quote=Nightrunner]
You are undeniably right. And I wouldn't argue with you at all. I'd merely like to bring out a problem with that. She constantly talks to me, and it's hard to let her be. We pretty much established that I would be her next boyfriend. Her current boyfriend is a dick, but he never does anything to her. So out of respect for them, I have been holding myself back. One thing I have a problem with is that we talked for two days straight while she had a boyfriend. It makes me ask myself "Why wouldn't she do the same thing to me?" I genuinely feel like we do have a special synergy, but maybe it means more to me than it does to her.Her boyfriend started sizing me up after school once. I may openly be a 'nerd', but I'm not a wimp. So I threw my arm over his shoulder and started strolling for a second, establishing that he would not be intimidating me at all. As opposed to simply beating the living shit out of him for sizing me up like that. So that is a tricky spot for me. The only reason I didn't beat him into submission is because she was watching. Sometimes I wish I did anyways.I was bullied as a young child, so showing mercy against people trying to intimidate me is excruciatingly difficult. I have a tendency to tackle anyone partaking in bullying on an impulse. It's the only impulse I have that I don't bite back.
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Ok. To put this bluntly, you're in a trap and your best move is to get out of there. Note I speak from having been in the exact same situation multiple times before.

First, you already have worries that if she would do this when she has a boyfriend nothing stops her from doing it when with you. That is a legit and true worry.

Secondly, if she honestly thought you were a good boyfriend preferable to her current one she would of left him for you by now.

This is not saying you are not a better boyfriend. But she doesn't value you as one and its better to not have her take advantage of you like that.

My suggestion is to pass on her and wait for someone else. This has all the same warning signs my past relationships did that ended terribly. I'm just hoping that you don't have to suffer the same way I did.

Good luck.

Also, I completely relate to wanting to beat up someone who is a total dick and tries to Intimidate others. I personally have 0 patience for such people.

Good on you for not doing it though. Violence only would of made things worse for all three of you. Its always best to avoid throwing fists if you can help it. The world needs less fighting in it, not more. Double when relationships are part of the equation.

*Edited cause my phone is a bitch and kept making me type in bad English*