[quote=Magic Magnum]
Ok. To put this bluntly, you're in a trap and your best move is to get out of there. Note I speak from having been in the exact same situation multiple times before.First, you already have worries that if she would do this she she has va boyfriend nothing stops her from doing it when with you. That is a legit and true worry.Secondly, if she honestly thought you were a good boyfriend preferable to her current one she would of. left him for you by now.This is not saying you are not a better boyfriend. But she doesn't value you as one and its better to not have her take advantage if you like that.My suggestion is to pass in her and wait for someone else. This has all the same warning signs my past relationships did that all ended terribly. I'm just hoping that you don't have to suffer the same way I did.Good luck.Also, I completely relate to wanting to beat up someone who is a total dick and tries to Intimidate others. I personally have 0 patience for such people.Good on you for not doing it though. Violence only would of made things worse for all three of you. Its always best to avoid throwing fists if you can help it. The world needs less fighting in it, not more. Double when relationships are part of the equation.
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