[quote=@Crimson Flame]
I’m behind on the Marvel TV shows. I’ve only finished Wandavision. I’ve seen all the movies. 

I’ll have to think about that one. 🤔 
[/quote]

If you decide to have your character come from a race of shape-shifting elves, part of their society could be that everyone is treated as gender neutral when they're born until they get older and decide what gender identity best fits them (male, female, non-binary, genderfluid, etc).