[quote=@Legend]
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...What would you say to her if you were in my shoes?
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Hmm... Well, I'd start with an apology for making her upset, though it won't mean anything if it's not genuine. Then I'd probably ask a bunch of questions to try to understand her point of view, and figure things out from there. But, that's me. You're you.
*Smiles at you*
I believe in you, and I know you can figure out what you should do on your own, whatever that might be.