[quote=@Valiance]
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Blame is something that stopped mattering to me a very long time ago. I can’t help but have concerns, even for people who can clearly defend themselves perfectly fine like yourself.
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I think we can both agree that all of us just want to do the best we can to help the people we care about. You're clearly important to my kids, and they're important to me.