[quote=@Etcetera] He seems to not want to talk about his time in the other world. But that's fine; he has no obligation to. [/quote] He has.. [i]issues[/i]... BAD ones... You won't really get to him telling his tale if he feels you are suspicious in any way shape or form... He would probably not mean to actually push people away if he could do better past his trauma, but things are just too difficult for him presently. He needs people who can tolerate him around him...