That is true, but the issue is that not everyone has time to get on the site and say what's going on with their lives. I myself could've communicated better, but some people are genuinely very busy. Like on Wednesday I'm getting my wisdom teeth removed, all of them, and I'm heading to Australia in the beginning of March because I need to go help my family to sell my grandmother's apartment, remove the belongings, and do work on it like replacing carpeting and new paint. She's alive by the way, just going into an assisted living facility.