[quote=Turtlicious]
No I was trying to kindly say, "You're not the best at reading social situations, so you're probably no going to understand this."Like I literally think you're incapable of understanding that spammers aren't posting earnestly in spam, and the intelligence comes from the jokes that shine in the subtext. Especially since we've gone a page back and forth and you're already stamping your feet and going, "Well I just won't talk to you because I don't understand.'E: And Yes, I mean Literally as in "The Forum is Literally Grey."E2: Spam is like the Colbert show, and you're the one guy on Facebook who talks about how Stephen is the last true American.
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I will grant you that I'm not always the best at reading normal people. Hell to this day I regard the normal person's behavior and thinking patterns as foreign.
This probably get's worse when online you're left only to words to interpret one's meaning. Things such as facial expression and tone of voice being absent.

But I know part of what's needed to have a civil, mature and intelligent conversation. Those things include being able to take it seriously and focus on the topic rather than trolling the individual. 
Spam from what they've chosen to show me has never done those, so I have no reason to think they are capable of such a thing. If they want me to think otherwise, they're best off showing it. Cause so far it's been a pattern of them claiming they can, but then refusing to actually show it. And honestly if an individual or a community refuses to show a quality about them, they have no one to blame but themselves for people thinking that they lack said quality.