[quote=ishtar] Err.... maybe it's just me... but how did Seravee's post linked to 'People use their media interests as a subsitute for a personality' ? I mean, she was sharing her experience like I did, and suddenly you're talking about .. personality substitute? [/quote] Girls can't be true gamers because gamer is more then just like video games > It's a way of life (or some bullshit.) The broken logic that makes people act the way they do towards Seravee stems from that root of personality subsitution. They're not the only ones who do it though. Bronies, Whovians, Brown Coats, hell even gang members, found a piece of media they'd rather use as a personality instead of developing their own.