When an argument is based on immaterial and unfalsifiable premises, I can happily call it settled when all parties are free of contradiction and have thoroughly made their case, however Jorick and Turt, while my mother chose to have me, I did not choose to have the most potent emotional bond with her. The boyfriend entered knowing the risks, I was given no choice. 

Now if we ever say, debate minimum wage, I have ample quotes from many prominent liberals on the guild making a strenuous case for its repeal.