Maybe it is just because I am so much older then everyone else. I cant imagine leaving people hanging. I know life gets busy but really is 5 minutes too much to ask? I left a message on all 16 of my RPs and my 16 or so 1x1 when I went on my last trip. I have lost more people to lack of action then anything else. I just want a way to stop losing people over something so easy to avoid.